Ensamhetsproduktionen

Ensamhushållen i Finland ska år 2020 utgöra hälften av den totala befolkningen ! Över 2,5 miljoner människor av drygt 5 ! Det finns stadsdelar i Esbo redan i dag med motsvarande siffror på över 90 %.

35 000 människor är förtidspensionerade pga depression. Siffran lär inte ha ökat nämnvärt de senaste åren men man kommer inte ut ur depressionen som tidigare. Man spekulerar i senaste Psykologtidningen huruvida läkemedlen inte längre biter på depressionen. Att den skulle ha blivit en störning som kommit för att stanna.

50 000 ungdomar orkar inte göra nånting. Om bara hälften av dem skulle vara deprimerade…vilket är rimligt att tänka sig…så är det minst 60 000 som är utslagna i dag av hopplöshetskänslor.

De sociala medierna med facebook i spetsen sades kunna hjälpa folk bli mer sociala. Det stämmer inte. Det är inte på riktigt. Att övh tro på att en människa med dåligt självförtroende och svårigheter med att träffa andra skulle bli ”modigare” med hjälp av att sitta bakom en osynlig mur och tala, är nåt som faller på sin egen orimlighet. Tesen har naturligtvis uppstått för man vill öka antalet besökare på sajten.

Det har tvärtom i undersökningar visat sig att människor som öppet berättar om sina problem för att få stöd och förståelse och kanske kraft till att ”ta sig ut” inte gagnar dem som har dåligt självförtroende. Däremot dem som har självförtroende och hamnat i tillfälliga svackor och är bra på att resonera om sin belägenhet.

När datorn kom ( hemdatorn ) på 80-talet sa man att den skulle revolutionera människans möjligheter till att skaffa sig mer fritid. Man skulle hinna mer på mindre tid. Hur blev det ? Folk blev förtjusta i datorn och tog jobbet med sig hem och fortsatte jobba.

Globaliseringen skulle göra att vi kom närmare varandra.

Alla exempel jag drar upp här berättar något väsentligt om människors tendens att ignorera vår natur…eller rättare vår psykologi. Framför allt om hur vi funkar känslomässigt. Att det många gånger strider mot förnuftet och den överdrivna tron på förnuftet.

Vad gör man då i Finland för att söka bättringar på ovanstående chocksiffror.

Ja framför allt så gör man en sak. Man snabbar på daghemsbyggandet. I stället för att lugna ner sig och tänka efter om de extremt tidiga placeringarna av barnen i samhällets vård möjligen skulle kunna ligga oss i fatet vad gäller framtida möjligheter att hålla ihop våra relationer. Vi vet nu att ensamliv förkortar vår tid på jorden i tillstånd som kan direkt eller indirekt hänföras till depression.

Upplevelsen av ensamhet kan jämföras med hunger som inte mättas vad man än äter. Det är en annan människa som gör livet värdefullt. Det har man under många år inte fått säga pga den upphaussning av tron på den starka ensamma människans enorma möjligheter att få vara fri och kunna självförverkliga sig själv utan att andra lägger sig i. Nu vet vi också att det inte stämmer.

När Finland sände 70 000 barn till Sverige för att räddas undan kriget var det psykologiska tänkandet på noll. Många har efteråt vittnat om hur de gick sönder själsligt då de miste mammans närhet. Att överleva fysiskt till varje pris har sitt kanske ännu högre pris i själslig utarmning.

Det är dags att stämma i bäcken och göra halt, sätta sig ner med sina hjärtan och inte bara plånböcker som argument i diskussionerna om vilken framtid vi vill ge våra barn.

Det är ingen slump att människor blir deprimerade i dag. Vi produceras till ensamliv. Det går inte längre att förneka.

Vem tjänar på det ska man så fråga sig.

Vem behöver den fritt rörliga arbetsstyrkan…som består av individer som inte vet varför de är i stånd att kunna lämna hem och familjer för att förlänga karriären utan att blinka ?

Svaret är givet.

Man måste ju älska sitt arbete om man inte har en människa att älska. Det bara är så.

Jag fortsätter med tankar om ”en lösning”

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